If you’ve never shopped in a museum’s (or other cultural organization’s) store you’re missing out on a great source of gifts. New York’s Museum of Modern Art (MOMA) Store is so renown it has it’s own brick and mortar store a couple of blocks away from the actual museum and has an unbelievable online presence.
Here were some of my finds from the NMAAHC:
Grouped Sections of Greatness: Got Soul?!?
Books, Books, and More Books!
I picked up a tee shirt for myself – I couldn’t resist. But the store has some great jewelry and items that family and friends would love to have – especially out-of-towners who may not have access to this museum at home.
Right outside The Linq Hotel – my accommodations for a recent wedding – is a great strand featuring shops and eateries – Sprinkles Cupcakes anyone?!?
It’s there that I ran into 12AM:Run or XIIAM. The store is co-owned by Nas, creator of the cult classic Illmatic, hip hop icon, and lyricist extraordinaire. So it makes perfect sense that the vibe in XIIAM would be amazing even at 11 o’clock a night.
The store’s tagline is “Sneakers. Fashion. Lifestyle.” and indeed what a lifestyle.
The staff was amazing – cool and accommodating without being overbearing. The clothing and accessories were unique, well-priced and equally well-shown. #merchandisinggamestrong
I picked up a couple of gifts for the holidays and have gone to their online store a couple of times since leaving the city as I’m lusting after one of their sweatshirts.
So if you’re caught in Vegas late night, stop by 12 AM:Run. The only thing missing was the real Nas, but trust me his essence lingers.
I love taking trips and finding unique shops that allow me to bring home great gifts. A few weeks ago I was in Las Vegas for a wedding. I was a +1 and didn’t know the bride or groom, but after meeting them and subsequently being invited to attend their nuptials, I thought – these two deserve a gift.
While exploring the Grand Canal Shoppesat the Venetian (I was there just a year ago and boy have they expanded in the best way) I came across Basin White (also known as Basin). Basin White is basically a bath store (like Lush) and has a number of great products and equally impressive packaging.
I was able to pick up a few bath bombs for the – ahem wedding night – and also some very cute “bride and groom” soap. They may never use it but at least it’s festive.
I also got to try my hand at video for the first time (my soror She’Don played the talent) as we watched a bath bomb dissolve and got to test out the products ourselves – which by the way are AMAZING!
So in order to walk my talk I took the opportunity to thank one of the members of my team for doing an awesome job in putting together a major event at our workplace. She did great and putting together this little desk delivery was a simple, inexpensive and appropriate way to say thanks.
How to do your own desk delivery:
Choose your packaging. It could be a box or a gift bag I went with a glass jar with a chalk label on it that I could use to write a message (lesson: writing on a mini chalkboard is not easy). I picked up my jar at Hobby Lobby.
Fill the package. I used my teammates favorite – Dove dark chocolates. But it could be mints or gumballs. You could also fill it with office supplies or other doodads.
I love FEED (the foundation established by Lauren Bush Lauren to help feed citizens in underprivileged societies). I love the motto and the style behind it.
Even better I like the practicality of the products available on the site. Hence my blog of their FEED Trick-or-Treat bag. At $18 it’s a great deal and even better, your purchase pays for 40 micronutrient servings, which offer children the vitamins and nutrients they need to stay healthy.
So if you have a little trick-or-treater in your life, invest in the bag and take care of other kids too!
I recently had a blog-style rant on what I termed the “Art of Thank You”. Now I’m jumping off my soapbox and sharing one of my fave ways of receiving a thank you.
Use your words (in a card) and add some PHOTOS!
It works for graduation gifts (a photo of the graduate) and appreciation for party attendance (wedding, birthdays, retirements, and etc.).
Just send your digital images off to an online photo printing site (like Shutterfly or Snapfish) or use your local Walgreens which offers the same type of service. Because you can print in small numbers (and it’s no longer so in demand), it’s pretty inexpensive.
I cannot believe it’s been three years. After more than a year of overthinking, I started this blog during the Federal government shutdown of 2013. I figured – when else would I have at least a week to devote to it and I’ve been pretty much blogging ever since.
Confession. I am offended rather easily by what I perceive to be ingratitude and I don’t think I’m the only one. But there’s an easy fix and it’s “thank you.” While I am traditional enough to enjoy a lovely thank you card, I can appreciate a phone call or text too. But to say nothing when you receive a gift is rude.
Here are some tips I’ve picked up along the way that have helped me and now I’m sharing them with you.
Timing is critical. In other words, don’t wait too long to send a thank you – whether it be a note or message. When I was a kid my mother used to make me phone in a thank you to my aunties right after I received their gifts in the mail. The same principle still works. Different occasions have different timeframes (for weddings I think you have a year), but my advice is not to let the grass grow under your feet.
Keep your message simple and personal. You don’t have to wax poetic nor be verbose in your thank you notes (or texts). I think that authenticity is best. So if you’re appreciative just say so. I guarantee that it will be well-received.
In other words – don’t go overboard. You don’t have to overshoot your thank you. I remember when my father died a friend sent a card with two books of stamps. It was an ideal and appropriate gift for me since I was planning to send thank you cards out to people who had sent me gifts and cards. When I called to thank her she made it clear that she did not want a thank you back from me using the stamps lol. I could have ignored her but I didn’t. She knew that I was grateful from the call and sending her a thank you would likely have been been going overboard.
When to send a thank you:
For a gift. In general, if someone gives you a gift, I think that you should send a thank you note. However, there are modern ways to do this. I know someone who posts a message on Facebook and tags us all in thanks. Not traditional, but the message is sincere and immediate.*
For an experience. If someone goes out of his or her way to do something nice for you I believe that it’s appropriate to drop a card in the mail or send an e-card via email. This is especially true if you appreciate the gesture.
*Exception: With some of my family and friends who have become family, we have a tradition of gifts for birthdays and other occasions. I would be sending notes constantly. So I think that this is the exception to the rule.
Stay tuned for ideas on creative ways to say “thank you.”